Day: March 11, 2017

See you later

the first trick to easing a goodbye is not to think of it as a goodbye, instead, see it as a ” See you Later” especially in today’s age, everyone is just a message, call or text away. no one is truly gone unless you want them to be, wilt will always be there for you should you need them.

 

so whilst on the surface that is simple, how does one do this?

well first off instead of saying goodbye, change the words to litterally be “See you later” thats the first and easiest way.

or you could just instead of thinking ” that was a goodbye” think of it as a ” See you later,” and remember that you could jsut message them

even easier is to point out this fact to them, tell them that you will always be there, and if they are your friend, they will do the same for you ( dont tell them that last part!) this helps with the next part

an unbreakable bond, it sounds liek something out of harry potter, but they do exist, true love  (if you believe in it) or those friendships that just seem to last no matter what, are proof of this, these can be formed by becoming as close as you possibly can, these bonds are hard to make, and even harder to maintain, but once they are there, they are so rewarding, never havign to stop to think what the other will think of you because you two are so close that there is no space for judgement is such a relief.

 

so i hope this tip helps you!

 

goodbye!

See you later!

Mx99

saying goodbye

at some point in our lives, we all have to do this, and it sucks, saying just a few words can invoke such powerful emotions, it can make us cry, or make us weep, other times people just repeat them back to you. in a way, it depends on the context.

I recently have started saying these words to some very close friends, for you see, I am moving away from them, this will be hard not only for me but for them, this goodbye is hard because it isn’t like I will just see them the next day, I won’t be able to just knock on their door and hang out, I will be gone, for some of them I will never see them ever again, others I have managed to ensure there is a bond there that will never break,

whilst saying these goodbyes I noticed a few things that will always make it easier, I will outline some of them in the next few posts I make, I hope you enjoy reading them, and once you do, maybe you should watch some videos of mine, because whilst I may be gone, at least my videos will always be here (unless I delete them)

 

see ya later!

Mx99