the first trick to easing a goodbye is not to think of it as a goodbye, instead, see it as a ” See you Later” especially in today’s age, everyone is just a message, call or text away. no one is truly gone unless you want them to be, wilt will always be there for you should you need them.

 

so whilst on the surface that is simple, how does one do this?

well first off instead of saying goodbye, change the words to litterally be “See you later” thats the first and easiest way.

or you could just instead of thinking ” that was a goodbye” think of it as a ” See you later,” and remember that you could jsut message them

even easier is to point out this fact to them, tell them that you will always be there, and if they are your friend, they will do the same for you ( dont tell them that last part!) this helps with the next part

an unbreakable bond, it sounds liek something out of harry potter, but they do exist, true love  (if you believe in it) or those friendships that just seem to last no matter what, are proof of this, these can be formed by becoming as close as you possibly can, these bonds are hard to make, and even harder to maintain, but once they are there, they are so rewarding, never havign to stop to think what the other will think of you because you two are so close that there is no space for judgement is such a relief.

 

so i hope this tip helps you!

 

goodbye!

See you later!

Mx99